7 Causes of Broken Home

7 Causes of Broken Home

Broken home is the opposite of a happy family. A family called the family in shambles if often quarrel / conflict that could undermine the integrity, rapport and solidarity in the family. Build a family that is very easy, but maintaining its integrity was very difficult. In my previous article titled "happy family is not a dream" I have explained the factors that influence and some tips to build a happy family. Indeed, these two forms of families is contrary to the will but both have the same relation to one another

Everyone had never thought to have a broken home, but the fact that we have encountered in the environment around us so many people fail in the family, often quarreled, mutual suspicion which ended in divorce. This family like a very bad impact, especially on children's mental growth. 

For that those of you who want to preserve the harmony of your family, it is important to know what can be the cause of broken homes and families if you are currently in a critical or nearly toward the mess promptly resolve the problem before it is too late. Here I will try to give a bit of information that I know about the causes and how to solve or the solution to prevent your family so messy.

The cause of broken homes

The cause of broken homes # 1: The occurrence of divorce.

Divorce is now a common thing in a marriage relationship. today many public figures who did not hesitate to part with their partner. In the view of psychology is family reasons so many divorces happening is due to start shifting the value of the trust a marriage, lack of ability to manage or cope with family problems, the effect of changes and norms developed in the community.

The cause of broken homes # 2: Immaturity attitude of parents.

Immaturity attitude of parents one of whom seen from the attitude of selfishness and egosentrime. Egoism is a bad human nature selfish. While egocentrism is the attitude of someone who did everything possible to make himself the center of attention. Because of this attitude often couples fight even for trivial matters.

The cause of broken homes # 3:  Parents who lack a sense of responsibility.

Irresponsible parents one problem of busy work. Work commitments were the words and habits that have been inherent in modern society in the cities. Busy focused on finding materials that property and money. Maybe for some people money is everything, but not for families. those who continue to work often ignore the family, they work for family reasons, to meet family responsibilities. If you include people like this then transformed, take time for your family because the family's happiness can not be purchased with money.

The cause of broken homes # 4: Away from God.

Everything ugliness of human behavior is because he is far from God. Because God teaches people to do good. If the family is far from God and prioritize the material world alone, the destruction of the family was going to happen.

The cause of broken homes # 5: The existence of economic problems.

In some families have difficulty in meeting the needs of the household. Wife demanding things outside eating and drinking. Though the husband's income as an employee, only to feed and shelter tenement rent within.

The cause of broken homes # 6: Loss of warmth in the family between parents and children.

Less or breaking communication between family members led to the loss of warmth in the family between parents and children. The main cause of the less-or-break communication between parents and children is because of busy work, it often affects families both parents work time forgot who regard money is everything.

The cause of broken homes # 7: There is a problem of education.

Education has a considerable influence in determining the happiness or the destruction of a family. I do not mean education bachelor's degree obtained at the school or university but education is meant here is knowledge being owned by a husband and wife godly couple of families, husbands example to know what the duties and responsibilities of the family, is able to resolve the issue as soon as possible, and so forth.

Educational problems that have considerable influence on the integrity of the household is the knowledge of sex. Couples who have less or no knowledge of sex, always have sex in the same way throughout the marriage. Thus, lead to saturation that can reduce or even eliminate the pleasure to be sex.

Now to find out what the cause of broken homes over at least you can avoid the possibility of your family crumble or fall apart. Better you avoid any worst than you are new possibilities sought after bad things happen. So what to do if your family apart? wait for my next article!